Bringing Carly into this world was the most incredible experience of
my life. We had our 39/40 week check up on Wednesday and I was only 1cm
dilated and 75% effaced. The doctor scheduled us to be induced for
Saturday morning (my due date) and we agreed as there were no other
slots the rest of the week. After getting home, I spent the next few
days agonizing over the induction and felt no peace about it. I did a
little bit of research and found that 44% of first time mothers who are
induced before 40 weeks end up with a c-section (and before or on 40
weeks...similar times to me!). It was pure peace from God to cancel the
appointment because right as I was researching, Brian sent me a text
from work and said, "Trish, I think we should cancel the
appointment...your body can do it!" I called the doctor and moved the
induction back to the following Friday, hoping and praying God would
make her come before then!
I began to feel contractions Thursday evening, but they didn't
turn into anything more than a few contractions. Then...Friday evening
into Saturday morning I began to feel light contractions at midnight.
At 1:45am I felt a pop in my stomach and had this incredible urge to
pee, but couldn't make it to the toilet in time! Feeling embarrassed, I
called for Brian and said I just wet myself. I stood up to wipe and
walked back over to get in bed, only to start dripping again! Then I
hurled over as I had my first big contraction. Brian thought for sure
my water had broke and began timing my contractions...which were less
than 4 minutes apart already! I went to get my mom and she came in and
verified that my water had not only broke, but that it was stained and
we needed to get to the hospital immediately! I broke out in tears as I
was SO afraid she was going to be sick. We piled into the car and I
had 4 contractions within our 12 minute drive to the hospital!
As
soon as we arrived at the hospital, we were taken to the delivery room
and my blood pressure measured 150/100! If I got to 160/100 there was
risk of seizures, so immediately I had nurses running all around me,
hooking me up to an IV and putting monitors all over my body! I fought
with them about it as I had hoped to not be confined to a bed so I could
bare the contractions utilizing different positions. Eventually one of
the nurses told me I was no longer in normal labor and was sick and
needed to cooperate. At this point I was incredibly worked up as I
thought both mama and baby were sick! I fought through the contractions
for the next 6 hours, feeling complete support and help from my mother
and husband. Brian put pressure on my back while my mom fed me ice
cubes. It was SO hard, but so worth it. I was able to work with my
contractions by relaxing, which progressed me to 7cm within 6 hours. I
was SO thankful it was moving so quickly. The morning took a slight
turn as the magnesium sulfate I was on relaxed my muscles and caused my
contractions to slow. Because of this, they put me on pitocin. I knew
the contractions would become stronger and I looked at Brian and said,
"This is really annoying. I don't want to deal with this pain for the
next 4 hours." We made a decision to get the epidural...BEST decision
we made! Because I had already dilated to a 7, almost 8, I knew I could
get to a 10, so it was nice to have the medication and rest before
pushing. Carly's head was "sunny-side-up", so I was actually stuck at
9cm for nearly 4 hours, rotating from side to side to get her head to
move. Eventually she did and pushing began. This was the funnest part
of labor!
I pushed for 30 minutes and was doing so
well that they made me stop and wait for the doctor. After he arrived, I
pushed for another 15 minutes and all of sudden THERE SHE WAS! Oh what
an incredible moment...nothing shy of a miracle from God! As I saw her
emerge I was overcome with joy and tears! My little girl had arrived!
They had a respiratory specialist clean out her lungs from the meconium
and she was essentially unaffected by it. Praise Jesus! Everything I
prayed for, God granted us, from going into labor naturally, to
delivering vaginally, to a healthy baby who I would be able to nurse. I
was in labor for 14 hours and was completely satisfied with the
experience. The rest of the hospital stay was incredibly enjoyable,
resting with Carly on my chest, skin to skin. Beautiful.
That's
quite the story...one shared by millions of women yet completely unique
to me. I think I will probably remember it forever, but it's kind of
nice to have it documented. Plus, lots of people have asked me about
"my labor and birth story," so it will be nice to direct them here.
That's the beginning...and a plenty long blog for today. Here is my favorite picture of her from the hospital!
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